More people likely read cadi's blog than read here, but still - in case you haven't seen the post:
Widowhood is hard enough as it is. Worrying about how you will feed and house your kids - that's just cruel. I checked the Liz Logelin Foundation, but Cadi is just past the 12 month mark, so doesn't qualify. If you know of other resources, or have some of your own, please send them her way.
Whatever you can send - love, good thoughts, tangible things. Love. You know. However that shows up.